Southeast Asia is an incredible destination for kids and families. I’ve been all over the region and have a good feel for the places to go and the over-rated destinations to avoid. There’s lots to see so let’s take a look at some of my favorites.
One Essential Tip
I could give lots of tips for traveling to Southeast Asia with kids but I’m going to mention just 1 here because I think it could make a huge difference in planning your trip.
Try to arrive and depart from different cities. Of course, this advice doesn’t apply if you’re doing a short one-week vacation, but if you’re there for a longer stretch of time it’s close to essential.
Southeast Asia lends itself to this open-jaw method of traveling. The typical must-see cities, attractions, and resort islands stretch along single routes of roads and rail. The most visited places – from Bali to Singapore up to Bangkok and over to Vietnam and onto Hong Kong – form a sort of crescent shaped route for travelers.
Where To Go in Southeast Asia – The Highlights
Bali is great for families. And to be honest the kids would probably enjoy one of the beaches (Jimbaran, Sanur, Lovina) more than Ubud. But if travel involved compromise and if there’s one cultural destination in Southeast Asia that works really well with children then it’s Ubud.
Most of the Balinese shows (dancing, singing, theatre) are bright, loud, energetic – and outdoors – making them perfect for children. The climate is cooler than the rest of Bali and the high number of expats ensures there is lots of good food – and great bakeries – that kids will enjoy. Most mid-range and luxury hotels have a swimming pool and a range of walks and hikes – from easy to more challenging – weave in and out of the local rice paddies.
- Bali With Kids
- Family Friendly Hotels in Bali
- Enjoying Balinese Dance In Ubud
- Cheap (But Good) Hotels in Kuta
- Exploring The Monkey Forest In Ubud
- Yoga In Ubud
- The Best Beaches in Bali
Singapore is loaded with fun activities for families. It’s easy to get around, has colorful neighborhoods, and a mind-boggling array of food, shopping, and entertainment options.
Kids will be most interested in the Night Safari, Sentosa Island, and the Science Centre but you could spend a week here and not be bored.
- Singapore With Kids
- Inexpensive Hotels In Singapore
- Family Friendly Things To Do In Singapore
- A Travel Budget From Singapore
Somewhat like Singapore but smaller and friendlier, with a more Old Asia feel. This is a place you could easily spend several weeks or a month relax – settling in and getting to the know the local people, customs, and slow pace of life.
Food is important in Penang so this is a place to explore different cuisines with a open-minded and fun curiosity.
- Penang With Kids – 10 Best Things To Do
- Renting A Place In Penang
- Cost of Living (for a Family) In Penang
This is my favorite beach in Southeast Asia and it’s a perfect destination for kids. (Actually, there are 2 beaches here – both are fantastic and very kid-friendly.) Railay is only accessible by boat from Krabi or Ao Nang which ads some drama and sense of adventure to your arrival. (Luggage often has to be carried overhead as you hop from the boat into the shallow waters of the beach.)
There are no cars within the town and it’s crisscrossed not by roads but sandy paths leading from one beach to another. Kids love it here.
Koh Pha Ngan, Thailand
The perfect Thai island that offers a bit of everything at a slower pace than nearby Koh Samui. Haad Rin is party central – renown for Southeast Asia’s biggest Full Moon Party – but get away from there and things change dramatically.
The nicest beaches can be found along the north coast of the island. It requires a bit of trek by car or pick up truck to get there but if you’re looking for what Thailand was like 20 years ago this is as close as you can get.
- How To Choose A Thai Island
- Koh Samui With Kids
- The Complete Guide to Diving In Koh Tao (a nearby island)
Chiang Mai, Thailand
This Bangkok meets mountain village. Chiang Mai is a hip urban destination – with many expats wandering the streets – but with great outdoor excursions just a short drive away. Do a collection of day trips or take a longer tour through one of the many trek operators found here.
Riding an elephant is usually at the top of most kids to-do list (it was for mine) and that’s easily accomplished in the Chiang Mai region. The overnight train ride from Bangkok is another sure bet to be popular with the whole family.
- The Best of Chiang Mai – A Roundup
- Living In Chiang Mai – A Family Perspective
- How To Get Between Chiang Mai and Bangkok
- House Hunting In Chiang Mai
- The Temples of Chiang Mai
Southeast Asia’s most exciting and dynamic city. From fantastic street food to gritty canal trips, from stunning palaces to the ultra modern sky train, Bangkok flat out wowes you.
You could spend a week here doing fun family-friendly attractions and day trips so don’t dismiss the nation’s capital as just another dirty busy transit hub.
- 101 Things To Do In Bangkok
- Family-friendly Hotels In Bangkok
- 9 Tips For Surviving Bangkok
- Travel Prices For Bangkok
- Visiting The Dreamworld Theme Park in Bangkok
- The Grand Palace With Kids
- Real Pizza in Bangkok
The Mekong Delta, Vietnam
A great region for getting off the beaten track, traveling like the locals do, and seeing true Vietnamese life. You can criss-cross the delta by bus, boat, or even bike (it’s so flat that this is a popular destination for touring on 2 wheels).
The stunningly beautiful Phu Quoc islands rests just off the Mekong’s west side and makes a great detour for some family beach time.
- A Cruise down the Mekong by Boat (about Laos but gives a good overview of river travel)
- A Month in Vietnam with Kids – likes, dislikes, and how much we spent
- The Mekong Delta by Bike
The tangle of lanes and narrow streets that makes up Hanoi’s old quarter is the stuff of asian legend and will likely make for a day of adventurous exploration for older children. A (very popular) water puppet show, kid friendly parks, exotic markets, numerous ice cream shops, and a waterslide park that looks out over rice paddies are some of the many highlights.
The overnight train ride to Hoi An or a night or two touring Halong Bay by boat are enticing sidetrips from the city.
Hong Kong, China
Not truly in SE Asia but on it’s a popular stop and gateway city for people heading farther south so I’ve included it here. The city has an amazing array of attractions that are kid-friendly, uniquely Asian, and easy to get from the city center.
- Things To Do and See in Hong Kong
- Family Friendly Hotels in Hong Kong
- A Travel Budget for Hong Kong
- Hong Kong To Hanoi Overland
Further reading on planning a trip to SE Asia:
- 12 Most Popular Islands For Backpackers In Southeast Asia
- The Most Overrated Places In Southeast Asia
- What I Ate In Southeast Asia
- What Happens When You Get Food Poisoning in Southeast Asia
- The Definitive Guide To Getting Visas For Southeast Asia
- Itinerary Suggestions For The Countries Of Southeast Asia
- The 5 Best Beaches for Kids in Asia
- Accommodations: Great Places To Stay In Southeast Asia