The Best Family Hotels in Hawaii

Updated: November 22, 2016

Tips and Recommendations

  • Maui is the most versatile island, with white sand beaches, natural wonders, and great food, but it is also one of the most visited, so many attractions will be crowded. Book tours in advance here, especially for large groups.
  • Oahu offers a great combo of big city convenience (plenty of food options for picky eaters and lots of cultural and historical activities) and accessibility to the sleepy surf towns on the North Shore. Like any big city, however, Honolulu is noisy, congested with traffic, and has some seedy areas.
  • The Big Island is excellent for adventurous families, with its active volcano, manta ray snorkels, lava rock deserts, and huge rainforest. Its large size, though, means lots of time spent driving, and the volcanic fumes are not healthy for infants or pregnant women.
  • Kauai is fantastic for a less crowded vacation with gorgeous rainforests and waterfalls. On this island, you’re really getting away from it all: expect fewer conveniences, frequent rain, and spotty cell service on much of the island.
  • Plan for a few rainy day activities, just in case. Hurricane season is June through November, and much of the islands are covered in rainforest. Museums, aquariums, cultural centers, and historical sites are excellent options.
  • Be sure to pack pants, sweater, and light jacket if you’re venturing away from the beach. Many of Hawaii’s attractions, such as Kilauea Volcano or the Haleakala Crater are at high elevations that run about twenty degrees cooler than the surrounding areas.

The 15 Best Family-Friendly Hotels in Hawaii

1. Aulani – luxury – Oahu

Best hotel for families in Hawaii.
This family-centric Disney resort offers luxurious, Hawaiian-themed rooms, suites, and villas; some with kid-sized Murphy beds built into the TV stands. The main attraction here is the extravagant pool area with two waterslides, lazy river, aquatic playground, and private snorkeling lagoon. Little ones love the Disney character breakfasts and complimentary kids club activities. This beachfront property also features great restaurants and bars.
(Hotel phone: 808-674-6200)

2. Grand Wailea – luxury – Maui

Hawaii family hotel in Maui.
Classical luxury with tropical touches, perfect for families. Each generous room, suite, and villa has a private balcony; connecting rooms are available. The beach fronting the resort is perfect for swimming, standup paddleboarding, snorkeling, and boogieboarding. Onsite they have an amazing water complex that includes nine pools connected by a lazy river, four waterslides, a rope swing, and a water elevator – plus complimentary scuba lessons. Their kids’ camp area is gigantic, with an arcade, mini cinema, kids’ activities year-round, and seasonal programs for teens.
(Hotel phone: 808-875-1234)

3. Hilton Waikoloa Village – luxury – Big Island

Great family hotel in Hawaii.
Family-friendly, luxury resort with a busy vibe. With three waterfall-enhanced swimming pools, giant waterslide, and lazy river, this spacious beachfront hotel is ideal for water-lovers of all types. The property’s four acre ocean-fed lagoon has its own private beach, shielded from waves and safe for beginning swimmers. Several dolphins live onsite, and guests are offered interactive swims with them – older kids may even shadow a dolphin trainer for a week. Boats and trams transport guest through the resort, which is a fun and unique way to get around.
(Hotel phone: 808-886-1234)

4. Four Seasons Hualalai – luxury – Big Island

Luxury resort for family on Big Island.
Spacious, bungalow-style accommodations in several variations with the option of adjoining rooms. King-bed rooms can also fit a rollaway bed, if families prefer to stay together. The resorts littlest guests are offered child-sized amenities, bathrobes, and milk and cookies upon arrival. Their “Kids for All Seasons” activity program runs year-round, with cultural and ocean adventures from sunup to sundown. Grounds feature seven pools, including one stocked with wildlife, a safe way for beginning swimmers to snorkel. The resort sits on a stunning white sand beach with manmade coves and gentle waves.
(Hotel phone: 808-325-8000)

5. Grand Hyatt Kauai Resort and Spa – luxury – Kauai

Brand name hotel for family in hotel.
This sprawling oceanfront resort is exceptionally kid-friendly. All one-bedroom suites can connect with king studio rooms, and rollaways are available. The property includes freshwater pools with a waterslide and grottos. Their saltwater lagoon is ideal for scuba lessons, kayaking, or swimming, and has direct access to Po’ipu Beach and Shipwreck’s Beach. The resort’s kids’ program tailors activities to suit each particular group of children, whether arts and crafts, learning about animals, or cultural activities is preferred. Kids can hold a parrot during the Grand Hyatt’s complimentary “parrot talk” series, and the resort partners with the local humane society, allowing guests to borrow dogs for a day-long outing.
(Hotel phone: 808-742-1234)

6. Montage Kapalua Bay – luxury – Maui

Family hotel with kids pool and playground.
An all-suite, beachfront, luxury resort. Suites range from one to four bedrooms, all with full kitchens. The largest are over 4000 square feet and sleep up to twelve, making them perfect for multigenerational families. Their kids club, Paintbox, plans a different theme every day and offers hourly, half day, full day, and evening programs. Their teen program runs three days a week with outdoor excursions in the mornings. The Montage has direct access to Kapalua Bay, a great beach for a variety of water activities. Fun and easy hiking, horseback riding and ziplining are all nearby.
(Hotel phone: 808-662-6600)

7. The Westin Maui Resort & Spa – luxury – Maui

Luxury hotel for family in Maui.
This luxury resort on Ka’anapali Beach is fully family and pet-friendly, even providing dog beds on request. Suites all include sofa beds; rooms have the option to adjoin. The resort has a mini water park with five interconnecting pools and a waterslide, plus hot tubs. Their kids’ program runs full day, half day, and night programs, where children can learn Hawaiian dance, crafts, and language, play games, and splash around in the pool. Scuba and surf lessons are available onsite for older kids.
(Hotel phone: 808-667-2525)

8. Ka’anapali Beach Hotel – moderate – Maui

Family hotel with large pool.
Billing itself as Hawaii’s Most Hawaiian Hotel, Ka’anapali Beach Hotel is a family-friendly stay that emphasizes Hawaiian culture. They extend their cultural presence all the way to the water, by hiring beach alokai (leaders) who have extensive knowledge of all aspects of the water (culture, history, environment, and safety). In the evenings, they offer a magic show, reenacting classic illusions from six famous magicians who visited Hawaii in their heydays. Complimentary sunset hula shows, ukulele lessons, lauhala weaving, hula lessons, and cultural garden walks are all featured here. All rooms here can connect, and up to three can be joined together. Kids love their whale-shaped pool, and parents love that their property has no blind spots, so kids can run free.
(Hotel phone: 808-661-0011)

9. Coconut Waikiki Hotel – moderate – Oahu

Luxury family hotel in Hawaii.
Family-friendly boutique hotel overlooking the Ala Wai Canal in a quieter part of Waikiki. Rooms and suites are available, with the largest sleeping up to six. All rooms include kitchenettes; barbecue grills are available near the heated outdoor pool. Continental breakfast is complimentary and includes a visit from their mascot, Bosley the Gorilla. Every Friday evening they have live music and a traditional plate lunch dinner. Special “Kids Rule!” package is available in spring and summer, where kids create their own vacation package. Great neighborhood, only three blocks from Waikiki Beach and three blocks from Luxury Row.
(Hotel phone: 808-219-0728)

10. Hilton Garden Inn – moderate – Kauai

Good hotel for family with pool in Hawaii.
Great waterfront location on Wailua Bay. This hotel has direct access to the ocean and is adjacent to Wailua river. Suites and connecting rooms are available here, but for families, cottages are the best option. These units offer more privacy and open directly to Lydgate Beach Park, which has a lava rock wall protected area for beginning swimmers, a bike path, and an enormous wooden playground. Older kids may enjoy kayaking up the river to Fern Grotto and swimming under Secret Falls.
(Hotel phone: 808-823-6000)

11. Park Shore Waikiki – moderate – Oahu

Family hotel on Waikiki Beach.
This modern, oceanfront hotel sits right across from the Honolulu Zoo, close enough to hear the animal sounds! It is also directly across from Waikiki Beach, with unobstructed views of the water and Diamond Head. Walking distance to the aquarium. One and two bedroom suites with pullout sofas are available here, but the most popular choice for families is a poolside lanai room, which opens directly onto the pool deck. Light sleepers may prefer a higher floor on the ocean side of the hotel for less street noise. The beach area directly in front of the hotel has a cordoned off section with gentle waves for younger children.
(Hotel phone: 808-954-7426)

12. North Country Farms – moderate – Kauai

Boutique family hotel in Kauai.
Cottage stay on a working organic farm with tons here for kids to see and learn. The farm grows three acres of vegetables and fruits year-round, including avocado, lime, grapefruit, mango, lychee, papaya, pineapple, banana, and tropical flowers. They also raise rabbits, ducks, and chickens for eggs and meat. Kids and parents are invited to pick any vegetables or fruits to eat, and the farmers bring fresh eggs to the cottage daily. Plenty of room outdoors for kids to run. The unit is a one bedroom with extra sleeping in the living room and a kitchenette with two burners. This is a rural location, but fairly close to the shopping, dining, and beaches in Princeville and Hanalei.
(Hotel phone: 808-828-1513)

13. Lotus Garden – budget – Big Island

Large room for family of 4.
Sunny and charming boutique lodging in the heart of downtown Hilo. Historic, tin roofed buildings from the 1890s are painted in a shock of colors. Though it’s located downtown, the yard is fenced and private with a Zen garden and water features, so the city seems miles away. Cottage rentals are ideal for families; they include a full kitchen and can sleep up to six. This is walking distance to everything in Hilo: restaurants, museums, beaches, and the farmers’ market. The owners can also provide cribs, pack ‘n plays, and other items for young children on request. Additional twin beds can be added to some rooms.
(Hotel phone: 808-936-5212)

14. Garden Island Inn – budget – Kauai

Family hotel in Kauai.
Colorful, boutique hotel in downtown Lihue, painted all over with bright murals of tropical landscapes, mermaids, surfboards. Lush garden area with sea turtle stepping stones, walkways made from arched palms, piped in Hawaiian music, blue twinkle lights in the shape of ocean waves, and water features. Several room options, all quaint and clean. The largest room has one king and three twin beds; rollaways optional. Pet friendly, complimentary beach and golf gear, and incredible coffee. The hotel sits across the street from Kalapaki Beach, great for swimming, standup paddleboarding, boogieboarding, and beginner surfing. Several restaurants within walking distance, but a car is necessary for exploring the island’s attractions.
(Hotel phone: 808-245-7227)

15. Maui Seaside Hotel – budget – Maui

Cheap family hotel in Hawaii.
Family-owned, beachfront hotel, central to all Maui attractions and the airport. The exterior needs a refresh, but the rooms and lobby are bright, cheery, and clean. Most rooms have two double beds; accommodations are basic. Incredibly friendly and welcoming staff with true aloha spirit. The oceanfront pool is surrounded by grassy lawn. The beach itself is fine white sand and swimmable, even for beginners. Complimentary breakfast in the adjacent restaurant. For groups of four or more, bookings must be made by phone, not through the online booking system.
(Hotel phone: 808-877-3311)

Family Apartments and Villas in Hawaii

Apartment for families with kitchen in Waikiki, Honolulu, Hawaii.

Family apartment with kitchen at Ilikai Hotel in Waikiki.

Recommended apartment rentals for families in Hawaii. All units have kitchens and swimming pools. Most have washer/dryer and free-wifi.

6 questions and comments

  1. Hotels for Family of 5 in Hawaii

    Hello Dave – the family (12yr, 9yr & 6yr) is going to Oahu in March. Looking for accommodations in the moderate $$ range w/kitchen, and within 3-5km of most amenities. Any recommendations?

    Greeting from Terrace.
    Chris

    1. DavidDavid My Little Nomads

      There are a few great, affordable, kid-friendly options right in Waikiki (the most central to activities and amenities – there are many great places spread around the island but expect longish drives to get to different attractions). The first that comes to mind is The Ilikai, Hawaii’s first luxury high-rise. This hotel was a big deal in the ‘60s, since it was used in the opening sequence of Hawaii 5-0, and it overlooks the docks from the beginning of Gilligan’s Island. It’s an all-suite hotel with a kitchen and lanai in every unit, luxuriously appointed on the inside (though the exterior could use some love) and moderately priced with two pools, two restaurants, and a coffee shop on site.

      It’s very close to Waikiki Beach, with a pedestrian overpass connecting the hotel to the lagoon city park area. The lagoon is protected from the open ocean with small or no waves, perfect for beginning swimmers. There’s a rental spot right on the water with big wheel water bikes to cruise over the surface, as well as SUP. There’s a shuttle stop here, connecting guests to the Honolulu Zoo and Queen Kapiolani Park, and Ala Moana mall is only a 15 minute walk away.

      The Ilikai is iconic and cool, but it’s also quite large. For a smaller, boutique feel, the Aqua Bamboo is a great option. It offers many of the same amenities, including suites with full kitchens and private lanais. It has a small pool and a great, family-run pizzeria on site, and it comes in at a slightly lower price point than the Ilikai. The Aqua Bamboo is a short, two block walk to the beach, and the hotel offers free beach gear to borrow. The Aqua Bamboo is walking distance to loads of fantastic restaurants, and they also offer a shuttle service to Ala Moana mall and Diamond Head.

  2. Best Area of Maui for Family

    I’m planning a Hawaiian vacation with my family. We’d like to stay on Maui, but aren’t sure which area we should be looking in. Can you recommend an area/hotel that would be good for 2 harried parents looking to relax with our twin 5 year olds?

    1. DavidDavid My Little Nomads

      For a local, surf town vibe, Pa’ia is a great option. It sits on miles of outstanding beaches, including Baldwin and Ho’okipa. This is a very walkable town with tons of great restaurants and shops. The hotels here are all small, boutique-style, the most luxurious of them being The Inn at Mama’s Fish House. For a kid-friendly budget stay in Pa’ia, try Mangolani Inn; they have a tree house room and jungle gym just for little ones. Pa’ia is centrally located, close to the airport, and right at the start of the road to Hana.

      For those who prefer resorts, the Wailea area is best. It’s less crowded than the Ka’anapali resort area and more accessible for excursions than the Kapalua resorts. The beaches here are fantastic, with gentle waves that are perfect for those just learning to swim. Wailea is close to Kihei for restaurants and activities. The Grand Wailea is the single best resort for families staying in Maui.

  3. Best Family Resort in Oahu

    What’s the best family-friendly hotel on Oahu that’s NOT the Aulani? Looking for a relaxing stay for our family that has great amenities, but with a less theme-parky feel than a Disney resort.

    1. DavidDavid My Little Nomads

      For a relaxed feel and spectacular amenities, the brand new Four Seasons at Ko Olina is your best bet. This is a gorgeous, oceanfront property with direct access to the beach, several man-made lagoons, and four pools. Complimentary amenities include outrigger canoes, Sunfish sailboats, and snorkel gear. Programs for kids and teens are available here, as are family adventure packages. This stunning, 16 acre-resort sits on the leeward (west) coast, away from the hustle and bustle of Honolulu, yet still accessible to the city.

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